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Domestic Abuse

As a result of the Coronavirus outbreak, many victims of Domestic Abuse face additional challenges and barriers to accessing support. While self-isolating, families will spend extended periods of time together and it is recognised that tensions may rise, escalating the risk of Abuse and Violence.

14 women and 2 children have been killed during the first 3 weeks of lockdown (the highest in 3 weeks for 11yrs). Meanwhile, the number of calls to the National Domestic Abuse helpline run by Refuge was 25% above average in the second week of lockdown and 49% higher than normal after three weeks.

There has also been a 35% increase of calls to Men’s Advice Line, in the first week

If you are currently experiencing domestic abuse, you are not alone, and we would like to reassure our residents that support service are still available to offer help.

The main domestic abuse support services to contact

 

Merton Community IDVA – 0207 801 1777

For other resources and services follow the link below

DOMESTIC ABUSE AND COVID19 for Victims and Surviours

Domestic Abuse, sometimes called domestic violence, is when an adult threatens, bullies or hurts another adult in the family. Domestic Abuse can affect young people even if they are not being directly abused themselves. Simply witnessing abuse can have a traumatising effect. It is important to remember that it is never your fault.

Domestic abuse can occur in different forms and it isn’t always in the form of violence. It can be:

  • Physical – hitting, punching, kicking, pushing, slapping, hair pulling
  • Emotional – threatening to hurt the other person, doing and sayings things to frighten the other person, swearing at them or saying things to make them feel bad.
  • Controlling –This could include stopping someone going to work or out with friends
  • Sexual – doing or making someone do sexual things that they don’t want to
  • Financial – taking away the other person’s money, not giving the other person money when they need it or not letting them get a job.
  • Cultural or ‘honour’ violence – This includes being hurt or abused as a punishment for something that’s not seen as culturally acceptable by your community or family. It can include being forced to marry someone.

If you are a child or young person witnessing domestic violence in the home you may be feeling very alone, frightened, depressed, confused, isolated. Your school work may be suffering, you may be experiencing difficulties in making friends and relationships, you may be harming yourself in some way as a means of coping with the circumstances at home.

It is important to talk to someone about how you are feeling.

Remember, if you or anyone else is ever in danger you should call 999

Links

Childline

For further information and guidance on Domestic Abuse visit Childline. Free confidential helpline 0800 1111

National Domestic Violence Helpline

If you are experiencing domestic violence or know someone who is, this is a free 24 hour helpline run by Women’s Aid and Refuge – 0808 2000 247.

Refuge

Refuge provides safe, emergency accommodation and emotional and practical support to women and children experiencing domestic violence.

The Hideout

The Hideout – Women’s Aid have created this space to help young people understand domestic abuse, and how to take positive action if it’s happening to you.

 

Adolescent to Parent Violence and Abuse (APVA)

https://www.iriss.org.uk/resources/esss-outlines/adolescent-parent-violence

APVA Home office